Links Roundup

I haven’t had much to talk about on here lately. Life is still happening, but some things are just for me and the rest have just seemed too mundane to bother putting on the blog.

I mean, I’m sure you’re all thrilled that I found a Baskin Robbins less than 5 minutes away from my apartment, but I’m pretty sure it’s not blog-worthy. I’m willing to concede that it is Instagram-worthy.

I used to do link roundups ages ago and they were all nice and automated thanks to Delicious. Unfortunately, that’s no longer a practical option, so you’ll now get quality Christy rambles with the links.

One of my favorite advice sites is Captain Awkward. The advice given is practical and rarely involves suggestions like “Suck it up, Buttercup. Keep the social contract.” The comments are well moderated, so you don’t get that scuzzy feeling when you accidentally scroll down too far. I especially like it when the letter writer comments to share how the post helped them, like in this post which delves into recognizing emotional abuse. Having had the “I don’t want to take sides” friend and having been the “I don’t want to take sides” friend, I found this post to be very interesting.

One of my favorite responses to the cat-calling video has been #DudesGreetingDudes, which does an excellent job of highlighting the ridiculousness of “What’s so bad of saying hi to a woman?”

To my followers who possess an active uterus and a smartphone, I suggest downloading Clue. It’s available on Google Play and the App Store, so Android and Apple users can be happy. It’s not blindingly pink, doesn’t get starry-eyed over ovulation and has a simple interface that helps you enter information about pain, mood, flow, etc.

If you’re in the Kansas City area or interested in nerdiness, you might like to know that John Barrowman will be here for Planet Comicon next year. He’s been in a lot of things, but my main love for him is as Captain Jack Harkness on Doctor Who and Torchwood.

If you’re looking for a new place to send your money, I suggest Worldbuilders which partners with Heifer Interational to get livestock to people in need, which helps fight against poverty (I recommend clicking through for less hand-waving and more explanation). Worldbuilders is in the middle of a donation drive, which means that if you donate, you may win some pretty nifty prizes (fantasy novels signed by the author, cool games, etc.).

If you’re feeling like supporting smaller animals, you may want to check out Baby Warm, which gives incubators to wildlife rehabbbers.

Last, but certainly not least, I leave you with Shia LaBeouf.

Lunden Needs New Wheels!

I don’t know how it is for most people, but I know so much more about the people I went to high school with now, than when I was spending 7 hours a day with them. Yay Facebook?

I felt gross typing that, excuse me.

Anyways, there was a pleasant drift for the years immediately following high school, but around six years ago when we started planning our ten-year reunion, I somehow started accumulating high school friends and acquaintances on Facebook. It’s interesting to see who ended up with a completely different life than what you expected for them, who got knocked really young, etc.

Now, I like to observe people. I tend to stay back and not say much unless I know you well. I have several friends who thought that I was just this very quiet, sweet girl in the background and then were surprised when I felt comfortable enough around them to bust out my actual personality, which is typically heralded by a curse word or six.

The point I’m ever so slowly getting to is that I’ve been keeping an eye on my classmates lives for the past six years. Not in a weird way or anything–I just skim Facebook while making sure that I’m not missing any birthdays or posts that I’ll be quizzed on later. As I’m lazy, most of my high school acquaintances and friends are still there. I weeded out the ones who pissed me off and just left it alone after that.

There are a lot of stories I could tell you about my classmates. There have been marriages, divorces, new jobs and new babies. Those who know me (AKA have made it to the “When does Christy ever stop swearing?” phase), know that babies and children aren’t really my thing. They’re great for other people, but I’m not a fan for myself.

That said, there have been a few kids who have captured my attention. My nieces, of course. They’re cute little blonde horrors who giggle a lot, have plenty of personality and they promise to drive my sister to distraction by the time the youngest turns 18.

One of the other children on Facebook who has my attention is Lunden. I was vaguely aware of her mother’s pregnancy, but didn’t pay it much attention because honestly, I think there was just some sort of baby explosion going on at the time. It seemed like everyone was pregnant (except me, hurrah!).

However…then there was a fair amount of silence. And then the posts started. Lunden was born, but it turned out that she has lissencephaly, which is a brain malfunction–her brain is smooth and doesn’t have all the lumps and bumps that most brains do.

At first, they didn’t even know if she was going to make it out of the hospital. She’s come a long way over the years, but as you can imagine, it’s been tough on her family’s finances. Healthy children are fucking expensive, but children who need medical are astronomically expensive.

Her parents do a great job taking care of her and I’ve seen them make all sorts of changes and cuts in their lives to make her life the best possible. However, she’s doing that thing that kids do–she’s growing. They previously able to pick her up and carry her around, but she’s gotten too big for that and needs a wheelchair now. With wheelchairs, come the need for vans. Unfortunately, they’re not able to afford the van on their own and have done something I’ve not see them do a single time over the years–put up a donation page.

I’ve put something in the bucket. If you can afford it and you think that Lunden deserves to see as much in life as possible, please consider donating as well.

There was going to be a fancy widget here, but WordPress was being snotty about that.

Donate here!